When you have kids, everything revolves around them. So, I didnt build my birthday up to be a big deal this year because I just figured Emma would take 1st place and my birthday just wouldnt be able to be a big deal. Basically, Im saying birthdays are the one time of year when you get a free pass to be completely selfish, but when you have kids? You cant be selfish.
BUT! Best Birthday Weekend EVA. It was like everything just magically fell into place. And I really made it a whole weekend of birthday fun.
Friday Night
The in-laws picked up Emma from daycare for us and after work I went home, took a brief nap and the showered up for Jason's departmental dinner at Ryans. Although I do love Ryans, the event was...dull. Basically it was like all 15 or so members of his department came, brought their families, and ate dinner. Not much socializing. We sat at one end of the table and talked with another couple for the evening.
( I tried entirely too hard in this picture)
I didnt realize how...depressing it must be to work in a jail until I met Jason's coworkers. Yes, they are nice people once you get to know them, but they all (and this is going to sound so horrid) seemed like prison workers. Like whatever you think the stereotypical prison workers would be like, it was them. ( And I am seriously not intending to offend anyone becuase Jason works in a prison! And so does his uncle!)
Jason was the youngest by...hmmm. maybe 20 years? And easily the best in shape. Jason's in great shape I think and most of his coworkers were quite obviously not. And they all just seemed to have sad little dark clouds hanging around them. They've all been working there for many many years and its seems to have taken its toll. I dont want that for Jason! I dont want him to end up like that! I just figured he liked his job and his environment, being a Dentention Center instead of an actual prison, wasnt so bad. Well, guess I was wrong. Jason likes the law enforcement field, but I think one day (no time real soon) he might switch over to being a Road officer ( Dep*ty Sher*ff) for the county. At least then he wouldnt be in such a dismal atmosphere all the time.
Then we headed over the in-laws to say good night to Emma. They had offered to keep her for the night so A) I could sleep in on my birthday and B) we could paint Emma's room in the morning. So we went over and put her to bed and headed back home.
Saturday
slept until 9:45!!!! WOOOOOHOOOOOOOO!!! Oh, and it was Glorious.
Then we got up, I watched some tv...
And Jason went to get us some doughnuts!
YUMMY.
He then presented me with my birthday gift, my college dimploma (which had been previously lost), framed!
(Lie and tell me I look beautiful in the morning)
Then we got to work painting Emma's room. It's not finished, but its probably 3/4 complete. We didnt get to one corner area of the room and the ceiling isnt trimmed in the rest, but it wont take long to finish it up. (Whenever we have time! yikes! When we have time- Emma will be in bed! In her room! That we need to finish painting! Sigh)
When all the painting is done, and we had in a few new organizations pieces to help with Emma's growing clothes and toys collections, I'll take pictures of her whole room.
Then I showered up and we headed over to the in-laws to retrieve Emma. They actually expected we wouldnt be by until late afternoon, but we missed her! So, we had lunch with them (sub sandwiches) and socialized for a few hours. My mother-in-law gave me some pretty notecards done by a local artist friend and a gift certificate to TJ Maxx!! Holy Cow! Now I have two GC's to TJ's to use!!!! Wooooohooo! And her rule was I HAVE to use it on myself. No buying Emma anything. Okey Dokey! :) I plan to head over there some time this week and do a little me shopping.
Emma, who declined a nap at her regular nap time (around noon) fell asleep in the car on the way home to our house (4pm) and slept until a little after 6pm! Mommy got to sit around and be lazy and watch even more tv shows! It was heaven.
About 7pm our friends Kim and DT came over to hang out for the evening. Emma rode into the living room on her Dora the explorer car and stopped quickly when she saw them. She probably stayed there for a good 15 minutes, just staring at them. I'm really not sure if she was extra shy because they are strangers to her or because DT in asian and I dont think Emma has ever seen an Asian person before.
Anyway, Emma played with her toys on the far end of the living room (would not get near kim and dt!) and we all talked for about an hour, catching up on life. Then, I told Emma it was bedtime, dressed her in her PJs, and sat with her in the living room for about 20 or so minutes while the boys played Wii (Dt brought his over) and then I carried her off to bed and miraculously, she went to sleep on her own with no trouble. She's usually pretty good about bedtime, but given the late nap, the strangers in the house, and the different bedtime routine, I wasnt sure what would happen. I was truly blessed the weekend with an angel child. :)
So, after talking and playing Wii some more, we all watched Bourne Ultimatum. Better than the 2nd one, and I do love Matt Damon, I guess I just never understood why he needed to remember who he was. I say, Get Over it! Move on! Become someone else! But whatever.
We enjoyed a delightful pistachio birthday cake my MIL had made for me.
If you're like me (chocolate birthday cakes only please), then you were probably as suprised as I was to recieve a pistacio cake. But you know? It was really good! Really really moist. Kim and Dt loved it and by the end of the night 1/2 was gone!
They left close to 2am....when I finally said, "I have to go to bed..." It was great to hang out with them. And equally great that Emma did so wonderfully with them there. I thought surely that having tested fate and staying up that late would mean Emma would want to wake up early Sunday morning, but you know when she (and us) woke up?
10 AM!!!!
I know! The great sleep weekend continues! Amazing.
We headed off to church, then met Jason's parents for a mexican lunch. Their treat, as it was still techincally my birthday weekend. ;)
Then we decided to take Emma up to the mall to see Santa. We have a local mall in RH, but Jason refused to take her there because he thought the santa would be really ghetto. And really, he's probably right. It's a sad mall. But the big mall in Pineville, one week from Christmas??? Oh dear, so so busy.
We found Santa at the North Pole and let Emma watch him from a distance for a while.
She seemed to recognize him (we've been pushing Santa hard in books, tv and figurines) but didnt seem eager to meet him, so we decided not to pay the $15 to have her sit on his lap.
We ran into DT, who works part time at the mall while he goes to school, and Emma recognized him and finally gave him some smiles. Very cute.
We headed back home and that was pretty much it!
I really couldnt have asked for a better Birthday weekend! Thanks to all for the birthday wishes, to Jason for helping make it a great birthday and to Emma for being such an angel all weekend long!